Unapologetic.

So i searched up the meaning of unapologetic, and it means, "in a manner that does not acknowledge or express regret". Please don't interpret the meaning as pride or arrogance with reference to this write up.

In life, i find that most people spend a better part of their time trying to please others or trying to be someone else, in case you are still in that "role", my advise to you today is to resign. I decided to resign from that "role" a long time ago. The truth about life is, you can never please everyone. There are people who will love you, people who will hate you, people who couldn't care less if you were around. Trying to please everyone is hard work, so i offered myself these advise, i do hope that you find them useful and apply them to your life.

.1. Look after yourself and remember you always come first, and this does not make you selfish.

2. Don't be a crowd pleaser.

3. Learn to forgive yourself of past mistakes and be determined to move on with your life. Don't allow past mistakes to destroy your future.

4. You can't control what people say or think about you but you have the sole power to determine how you react to what has been said. Take on board constructive criticism and shrug destructive ones.

5. This life is not theater art, not a movie, so live your best life. You are not going to get the opportunity to repeat any stage of life you miss, there's no rewind in life.

6. Whatever you want to do, start now, even if you fail, keep trying until you run out of ideas, giving up is not an option.

7. Be super kind to yourself and love yourself unconditionally.

8. Never be afraid to use your power of "No". Boundaries are set for a good reason, and no one should make you feel guilty for have a set boundary and if someone cant respect your boundaries, then they are not worthy of your time and relationship.

9. Don't bother explaining or trying to prove yourself or make a point to people who do not believe in you, it is called" Time wasting "

10. Finally, surround yourself with motivators, people who really care about you, people of like minds. These group of people make life so easy and better.

To conclude, life is too short to waste time on non essential items, decide what's essential for you and work on them. Love yourself and look after yourself.